All Will Be Well

So today on The List is number four. List 10 things you would tell your 16 year old self. Do I only get 10??? It makes me think of the Rod Stewart song, Ooh La La where he sings, "I wish that I knew what I know now, when I was younger. I wish that I knew what I know now, when I was stronger." I love Rod Stewart. I should probably listen to him more... Anyway, here goes nothin!


10 Things I Would Tell My 16 Year Old Self


1. Philip won't be your last love. The saying "there's plenty of fish in the sea" is true. You'll meet plenty of young men in the future. Yes, it hurts like you'll never be okay again, but you will be. And don't worry, it may not happen the way you always dreamed, but you'll meet Mr. Right and your wedding will be FABULOUS.


2. It's okay to be single. Learn to love yourself. That's more important than loving anyone else.


3. Don't be ashamed of your faith but don't be critical of others. Closed-mindedness is not a virtue. Stand up for what you believe in but don't force those beliefs on others. Who's to say you're absolutely right and they're absolutely wrong? 


4. You and mom will always butt heads but it'll get better. Dad will be your quiet warrior. 


5. Talk to Becca more. Those stamped and addressed envelopes you gave her for HS graduation? Actually send them. Don't wait for her to send one to you. Call her. Go visit her. Be more involved in every way. She needs you. And you could be her saving grace. 


6. Birth control is only 99% effective. The 1% could result in an unexpected pregnancy.


7. Be more in tune with your body. Notice trends. Notice differences. Be aware of changes.


8. Drink a glass of water between each alcoholic drink. Trust me. This is solid advice and will save you from SO many headaches.


9. Be careful who you trust. Sometimes, the people close to you are more hazardous to your health than the people you push to the back burner. Choose your friends wisely. They help build your character. Pick the ones who will build you up, not knock you down.


10. Discover an attitude of gratitude early. When you're able to see and appreciate the little joys in life, the dark parts get less dark. Say "thank you" to everyone, no matter how small the gesture. 

"All Will Be Well" -Gabe Dixon Band

The List

1. List 20 random facts about yourself.
2. Describe 3 legitimate fears you have and explain how they became fears.
3. Describe your relationship with your parents.
4. List 10 things you would tell your 16 year-old self, if you could.
5. What are the 5 things that make you most happy right now?
6. What is the hardest thing you have ever experienced?
7. What is your dream job, and why?
8. What are 5 passions you have?
9. List 10 people who have influenced you and describe how.
10. Describe your most embarrassing moment.
11. Describe 10 pet peeves you have.
12. Describe a typical day in your current life.
13. Describe 5 weaknesses you have.
14. Describe 5 strengths you have.
15. If you were an animal, what would you be and why?
16. What are your 5 greatest accomplishments?
17. What is the thing you most wish you were great at?
18. What has been the most difficult thing you have had to forgive?
19. If you could live anywhere, where would it be and why?
20. Describe 3 significant memories from your childhood.
21. If you could have one superpower, what would it be and what would you do with it first?
22. Where do you see yourself in 5 years? 10 years? 15 years?
23. List your top 5 hobbies and why you love them.
24. Describe your family dynamic of your childhood vs. your family dynamic now.
25. If you could have dinner with anyone in history, who would it be and what would you eat?
26. What popular notion do you think the world has most wrong?
27. What is your favorite part of your body and why?
28. What is your love language?
29. What do you think people misunderstand most about you?
30. List 10 things you would hope to be remembered for.